Friday, October 17, 2008

Words Are Dangerous

John McCain is playing with fire and it scares me. I'm evidently not the only one scared. Read the Open Letter to McCain.

Rocky Mountain Collegian

After writing this I just saw on the news that the McCain campaign is reinforcing the Obama "terrorist" idea with automated phone calls and radio adds. I realize that all politics is dirty but that kind of smear campaign could get someone killed. Are you really that desperate to get elected president John???

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Politicians Suck!

Even for a skeptic like me it's hard to believe how low our elected representatives have sunk today. By adding 100 billion dollars in tax cuts to the 700 billion dollar bailout it looks like the politicians who voted against the bailout earlier this week can be bribed to vote for it. Now this enormous tax payer bailout is even bigger. The Republicans who claim to be conservative have taken a surplus the Democrats gave them 8 years ago and turned it into the largest deficit in history. Now that their policies have devastated the economy they want to put us further in debt with this gigantic bailout - but for the conservative republicans to vote for it they need more deficit spending - another 100 billion! The Democrats are right in there with them looking for their favorite tax breaks. Politicians suck!

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Remembering Angie

Last night my wife, Nancy, and I attended a candlelight vigil honoring the life of Angie Zapata. Angie, a transgender teenager was murdered July 17th in a hate based crime. As one speaker suggested, "she was not murdered because she was a transgendered woman, but because her killer was taught to hate that which is different and/or threatened his masculinity." In his statement to Greeley, Colorado police he referred to Angie as "it". ( He took a fire extinguisher off a shelf and struck Zapata twice in the head, telling investigators he thought he "killed it.")

Unfortunately this terrible tragedy is not an isolated hate crime. Gay, lesbian and transgendered bias crimes happen on a daily basis nationwide, with 19 slayings reported to groups like hers last year. This according to Crystal Middlestadt, director of training and education for the Colorado Anti-Violence Program.

It is a sad fact that Christianity and other major religions are in large part responsible for the culture of bigotry and hate toward the GLBT community. Some churches have courageously affirmed the GLBT community only to be targeted by hate based crimes themselves. On July 27th a gunman in Tennessee targeted a Unitarian church, killing two people. The note he left behind suggests that he targeted the congregation out of hatred for its liberal policies, including its acceptance of gays.

I saw a bumper sticker the other day that I will end with for you to ponder: "Annoy a conservative. Live like Jesus."

Monday, June 23, 2008

Perfect Day for a Hike

Today was the perfect day for a hike. After a quick stop at Starbucks to get Amber her morning coffee fix, we headed up to the Wild Basin Area of Rocky Mountain National Park. The hike we had in mind was to Ouzel Falls, a 2.7 mile (one way) hike that begins at 8500 feet elevation and reaches the falls at an elevation of 9450 feet.

The weather was sunny and the temperature was in the low 70s. Nancy and I have made this hike before but with the abundant snowfall this last winter we had never witnessed so much water in the river. The Copeland Falls and Calypso Cascades that you pass along the way were spectacular. It did cloud up before we made Ouzel Falls and we heard thunder in the distance but the rain Gods were good to us and we didn't have a drop of rain during the hike.

Ouzel Falls tumbles loudly through a narrow chute and drops about 40 feet into the Ouzel river that is spanned by a scenic bridge. We ate our lunch there and climbed up around the falls for better views. I took pictures until the batteries in my camera gave up! I usually carry extras but hadn't today. There was a snow field near the falls that still had not given way to the warmth of summer. Lots of "flat landers" were delighted to find snow in late June and were having snowball fights.

This is a very popular trail as proven by the fact that the trail head parking lot was full - even on a Monday. We came across several groups of small children with their camp counselors making the hike. Because of the high use of this trail we didn't expect to see any wildlife, however when we left after the hike we saw a bear from the highway. We pulled over to watch it and then it crossed the road right in front of us. This was only the second time I had seen a bear in the wild in Colorado and of course, my camera batteries were dead! Pictures

As the Chamber of Commerce says, "Tis a privilege to live in Colorado".

Saturday, June 21, 2008

50 YEARS AGO

June 21st 50 years ago was a life changing day for me. On that day in 1958 in Des Moines, Iowa I became a father. Kevin entered this world after 12 hours of hard labor. In those days they didn't let the dad be a part of the 'miracle'. He had to sit in a waiting room with other 'fathers to be' and smoke cigarettes. I was so nervous I lit the wrong end of a filter cigarette that one of the other dads had given me (I didn't usually smoke filtered cigarettes).

So much has changed in the 50 years since that day. Can you imagine smoking in hospitals today? Can you imagine the father not being allowed to witness the birth of his child? If you weren't around then you probably think it's poor memory to claim gasoline was 28 cents a gallon! But then you probably wouldn't believe I married and started a family making less than $50 a week either. With that salary we paid rent, bought food, made a car payment and sometimes could afford the 5 or10 cents for a Dairy Queen ice cream cone. McDonald's was selling hamburgers for 15 cents and on their way to their first 100 million burgers sold.

Were those really the good old days? They were good in many ways I guess. Color TV was a few years away - personal computers were not even imagined - you still needed an operator to call long distance but most people couldn't really afford it anyway. If you lived in town (rather than on the farm) you could dial the phone to talk to a neighbor. Yes you literally "dialed" the phone - no push buttons or touch tone phones. Calculators were mechanical machines though some used electricity to turn those mechanical wheels to add, subtract, multiply and divide.

Automobiles were big and heavy things and actually had bumpers that worked. You could rear-end someone at 10 mph or so and not damage either car. Seat belts were only used in race cars but turn signals were on all the new cars by then. Iowa didn't have a speed limit and my 1952 Buick with it's straight 8 engine would easily exceed 100 mph on the flat. Alaska would become the 49th state thanks to President Eisenhower signing the statehood act on July 7th that year. It officially joined the Union on January 3, 1959.

A lot has changed since that morning when Kevin entered this world. The thing that hasn't changed is how proud I was of my "son" that morning. Of course the love for Kevin and my two daughters, who followed in rather quick succession, has changed. It has grown with every passing year. It's hard to believe 50 years can go by so quickly. HAPPY BIRTHDAY Kevin.

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Tidbits and Travels

Another Spring and another graduation. This year it was Matt Gallagher's turn. As valedictorian of his high school class of 17 he gave a speech. He will be off to Notre Dame this coming Fall. The keynote at the graduation was given by the governor of Montana. Pretty impressive for this small Montana school (Gardiner, MT). Also impressive was the list of scholarships to major colleges awarded to the seniors of this small town school. Full rides to Duke, Smith, Williams, etc.

Our trip to Montana started in the rain and it lasted all 500 miles to Billings. We also learned that a tornado hit Windsor, CO that day and passed within 10 miles of Fort Collins on it's way to Wyoming where it damaged the Wal-Mart where granddaughter, Katie, was working. Windsor, which is only about 15 miles from our home, was really hit hard. Our friends that live in Windsor escaped unharmed and with very little damage.

In Billings we enjoyed lunch and dinner with friends from 25 years ago when I lived in Billings for about two and a half years. Then it was on to Gardiner to visit Nancy's brother and attend Matt's graduation. The attraction at the Gallagher house was the three puppies that were only 4 weeks old.

After graduation we headed to Salt Lake City to visit grandson, Jason and his girlfriend, Samantha. Jason works for ARC of Utah and gave us the opportunity to volunteer at a fund raising breakfast while we were there. Then it was off to Vernal for a few days to explore Flaming Gorge and Dinosaur National Monument. A final stop at the KOA in Gould, Colorado gave us the opportunity to photograph Moose. We managed to site 10 in all.


A sampling of pictures from our trip are at http://picasaweb.google.com/JonLMendenhall/2008MayJuneTrip

Till next time ...

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Springtime in the Rockies

Spring is a great time of year in Colorado. One day is sunny and in the 70s - the next day it's snowing! I would have to say however, that our roller coaster weather is better than tornadoes, hail and floods that are pounding other parts of our country. I guess it's like the man who complained that he had no shoes, until he met a man with no feet. It could always be worse.

Another gift of Spring is the pollen that triggers my allergies. Itchy eyes, sneezing, stuffed up head and shortness of breath remind me that nature is assuring the survival of all those beautiful flowers, trees, grasses, etc. To the rescue is Colorado's high country. Up here at over 9000 feet elevation it's still winter! Nothing blooming here yet. Yesterday morning I woke up and looked out my motel window at 6 inches of fresh snow! Today the sun is shinning and it's almost 60 degrees (after an overnight low of 22 degrees). So the itchy eyes have returned to almost normal and the congestion has been significantly reduced.

Since I can't stay in the mountains forever (I'm heading home tomorrow), we will see how quickly my symptoms return when I get back to 5000 feet elevation. Regardless, it has been nice to have a reprieve for a few days. The snow covered mountains are beautiful and I've seen more movies on HBO than I care to admit. I'm ready to face spring in all it's glory once again.

Till next time then ... here's sneezing at you kid.

Monday, April 28, 2008

Basic Training

May 1st my youngest grandson, Matt, will leave Big Lake, Alaska for Fort Benning, Georgia for basic training. Timing would probably never be good I suppose, but this time in Matt's life will be especially difficult. Matt became a father just one month ago.

Isaac is their first child and now this young family is facing a long separation. Add to that the fact that Matt has never been away from home for more than a few days in his entire life and I'm guessing my grandson will be one homesick solider.

I suspect he mainly joined the army for financial or economic reasons. Whatever the reason I imagine he is having some second thoughts just now as he faces telling his wife and new son goodbye. May you be so busy that time will fly for you Matt. Be Safe!

Thursday, April 3, 2008

More photos of Isaac were promised. Here are some.
http://picasaweb.google.com/JonLMendenhall/Isaac

Saturday, March 29, 2008

Isaac has arrived

Isaac Knight Darnell came into this world around 10:37 a.m. Alaska time on Thursday, March 27th. Weighing in at 8 pounds 12 ounces he managed to wear out the parents and grandparents who spent most of the night waiting for his arrival. They all report it was worth it!

Being a Great Grandpa for the second time in a year comes with mixed feelings. The miracle of a new life, especially one in your own family, is always amazing and a joy - the realization that you are old enough to be a "great grandpa" is not so amazing.

Since Isaac's Dad ships out for basic training in about 5 weeks and will most likely end up stationed in the lower 48, it will probably be a while before we pay Isaac a visit. In the meantime we will rely on pictures from Grandma Darnell and/or the parents to keep us posted on the development of this new little miracle.

More pictures will be posted later - you can count on it!

Saturday, March 15, 2008

HOMOSEXUAL SAINTS

This week a book I’ve been waiting to be published arrived in my mailbox. It has been difficult to put down and I’m almost all the way through it already. The book is “HOMOSEXUAL SAINTS: The Community of Christ Experience”. The book, edited by William D. Russell, is a collection of personal stories about gay and lesbian experiences in connection with the Community of Christ (formerly the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints). In addition to the stories the Introduction traces the history of this issue within the church during the last several decades.

Friends of ours, Dick & Barbara Howard, are quoted on the back cover of the book; “If ever there was a collection of stories to inspire and enlighten, this is it. Here also is an example of the power and beauty of story to build sacred communities. These stories will do far more than legislation or official dogma to dismantle walls of fear and indifference.”

The guilt, shame, pain, isolation, struggles and difficulties caused by our culture and our churches to the gay community is shocking. Bill Russell doesn’t mince words when he says, “If homosexuals are not treated as equals in a particular church, in that regard it cannot responsibly claim to represent Jesus Christ.”

Amen!

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Meeting in Minneapolis

I just returned from a meeting in Minneapolis. Brrr! "Towards A Welcoming and Inclusive Church" was the name of the workshop attended by members of Disciples of Christ, American Baptists, Brethren Mennonites and Community of Christ. In all, 25 participants spent from 4 pm Friday until noon on Monday exploring ways to help congregations become welcoming and inclusive for all of God's children - LGBT folks in particular (who most Christian churches do not openly welcome). The Rev. Anita Bradshaw and Rev. Rebecca Voelkel were the instructors for the weekend. Mayflower Community Congregational United Church of Christ in Minneapolis hosted the event.

For more information visit the following websites:

http://www.welcomingresources.org/

http://www.welcomingcommunitynetwork.org/

Monday, February 4, 2008

Three S's ... Snow - Super - Super

It started snowing early this morning and has snowed all day. We have around 3 to 4 inches on the ground. It did get above freezing for a time today but just barely. I shoveled the drive and walks twice so that was my exercise for the day. We got online and made some camping reservations at our favorite Colorado State Park, Mueller, for 3 days in July. You have to reserve a long time in advance to get into this popular park behind Pikes Peak.

Yesterday was Super Bowl Sunday. The game between the New York Giants and the New England Patriots was a little slow until the 4th quarter. Lots of good defense with neither team able to score more than once. Then it got exciting towards the end with the Giants winning in the last minute 17 to 14. Some of the ads were creative as usual. You can see the ads on myspace.com/superbowlads. I especially liked the FedEx carrier pigeon one.

Tomorrow is another "Super" event in politics. It is possible we will have a pretty good idea who the candidates for each party will be after tomorrow. If the polls are accurate McCain should be the Republican candidate. As of tonight it is too close to call on the Democratic side. In either case it will be interesting to see if our country (supposedly founded on the premise that all are created equal) has really come far enough to elect a woman or African American as president! Unfortunately discrimination, intolerance and bigotry are alive and well in this 'land of the free'. On the other hand, I don't suppose, if McCain was to be elected president we could ever be sure it was the 'woman/African American' factor or other factors. At any rate it will be interesting to observe the next 9 months of politics in America.

I'm ready for winter to be over .... how about you?

Friday, January 25, 2008

Chinook Winds

We have been having an unusually cold winter for Colorado. Lots of snow in the mountains (which is good) and even quite a bit here along the front range. When we went to bed last night the temperature was in the low 20s. When we awoke this morning it was in the high 30s thanks to a "Chinook". It climbed into the 40s before noon. The Chinook winds are always a welcome break in the Colorado winter. I was beginning to think we weren't going to see one this year.

The sun is shinning and it feels more like a Colorado winter day. This evening we drive down to DIA (Denver International Airport) to pick up a friend of ours that is flying in from Kansas City. She is exploring moving to Fort Collins and will be staying with us over the weekend and until Tuesday.

This morning I got a call from "SAINT" asking if I could fill in for a sick driver. My usual day to drive for SAINT is Wednesday. Fortunately my calendar was clear and I was able to fill in. Right now I'm between rides and was close to home so decided to check my email. Since I still have a few minutes I'll add this post - haven't written anything for a while.

Wednesday night we went out to eat and a movie with the Simons. We saw 'The Bucket List' with Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman. It was a good movie. You probably have to be 50 years old or older to really appreciate it!

Till next time .... stay warm ... Spring is on the way.

Saturday, January 12, 2008

Bush's War

"President Bush said Saturday he is open to the possibility of slowing or stopping plans to bring home more U.S. troops from Iraq, defying domestic demands to speed the withdrawals. Updated on war developments, Bush said the U.S. presence in Iraq will outlast his presidency."
(note the date on the cartoon - March 29, 2003)

Those words cut me like a knife today! I'm not really surprised I guess, but somehow I still had the unrealistic hope that public opinion in America would somehow influence our elected leader. Maybe that's the problem - he wasn't really elected. As a co-blogger so aptly pointed out recently,
"In 2000 the President of the United States was "elected" in a cloistered room by nine people in black robes." We have paid a terrible price during the last 7 years for their decision.

I ran across a quote from Arundhati Roy recently that speaks to the current "Bush War".
"It's odd how those who dismiss the peace movement as utopian, don't
hesitate to proffer the most absurdly dreamy reasons for going to war:
to stamp out terrorism, install democracy, eliminate fascism, and most
entertainingly, to "rid the world of evil-doers."
--Arundhati Roy

Do I dare hope that things will really change after the 2008 election? All the candidates seem to be promising "change" if elected, but most campaign promises are broken soon after the ballots are counted. I'm old enough that I probably won't see the "fall" of the American Empire but I worry that my children and grandchildren will.
Sorry for the pessimistic mood but that's how I feel today. I hope and pray that I am wrong.

Tuesday, January 1, 2008

Happy New Year

Another year has passed into history and a fresh new year is before us. I remember thinking when I was much younger, how odd it would be to live in a century where the year would begin with 20 instead of 19. It was hard to imagine that in the 1960s & 70s. Time passes so quickly and now we find ourselves, not only in the 21st century, but beginning the 9th year of that century. WOW!

It has been a week of winter weather beginning with a couple of inches of snow on Christmas day, followed by 6 to 8 inches more 2 days later. The temperatures have remained cold so other that some melting from the sun and some blowing around by the wind, most of that snow is still on the ground. Thankfully Jessie and Katie made it home between snow storms and are back at work. Jessie also started school this week.

Kevin & Mimi flew into Colorado on Saturday and are up at their mountain home. They will come here on Friday and stay with us until they fly out on Sunday morning. We have enjoyed visiting by phone with all the children during the past week and are looking forward to Kevin & Mimi's visit. We had considered joining them in the mountains but since both of us have been recovering from colds we decided to stay home and rest.

Tomorrow we both will be back at our volunteer jobs ... an so another year begins. May each of you have a happy and prosperous 2008.

Till next time ... be well, do good work and stay in touch.